10 Tips for a Successful First Date

Here’s some tips for going on a first date to help you make sure that you’re taking your relationship where you want it to go.

Take her somewhere that you go often. You’ll give yourself a lot of credibility and value if you take her to place where everyone knows you. Stop and chat with the staff there. Learn their names and make sure they know yours. It only says good things about you. If you don’t have a place like this yet, make one.

Take her to an interesting restaurant. It’s a lot more fun to go eat sushi or some type of authentic ethnic food than just going to a more common restaurant. You don’t want it too be so interesting that there’s always something crazy going on and you can’t talk to her. Just make sure it is a little different.

Relax. The more you relax and show that you’re comfortable, the more your date will relax. If you feel like you’re getting nervous or tense, just take a deep breath, relax your shoulder muscles and smile. Just focus on having a good time.

Get rid of your expectations. So many guys that I meet wrap expectations around everything they do. They think, “buying dinner = she’s going to be my girlfriend or wife.” If you just spend the time that you’re together having a good time, acting like you would around someone you already know well and show that you couldn’t care less if anything happens between the two of you, you’ll have a much better chance of progressing things than if you act like she’s the first girl you’ve seen in twenty years, acting really nervous and so dumb that she runs away.

Don’t talk about normal boring topics or “guy topics”. If you want to be like every other boring guy out there, talk about what job she has, where she has gone to or goes to college. Only talk about guy topics like sports, lifting weights or something like that if SHE is already very interested in them. Also, don’t cling to a topic like it’s the only thing you can talk about. If a conversation dies, let it go.

Have a story or two that you can tell if you run out of things to say. One of the best ways to keep a conversation going is to have a few stories that you can tell at any time. When the conversation stops, just say, “Anyway,” and go into a story. The story doesn’t have to be something too amazing, just a little bit different.

Tell a story about a date that you went on where your date did something embarrassing or funny. Women love to talk about relationships and I’ve found that they are the easiest to come up with. If you’re having problems, just grab a girly magazine and read it for 15 minutes. You should find more than enough things to talk about in there.

Know a little bit about a lot of things. You can ask me about almost anything and I probably know enough about it to talk for at least 5 minutes. The more you know about, the easier it will be to hold conversations on just about any topic.

If your date wants to talk, listen to her. People like to talk and get the feeling that what they have to say is important. This doesn’t mean that you should ask her endless questions trying to get her to talk. If she’s not talking, feel free to. But, don’t interrupt her if she is.

Don’t try to impress your date. One of the worst things a guy can do is talk about how much money he has, what kind of a car he drives or anything else that comes across as trying hard to impress. If you do have a cool house or car, let her find out when she sees it. And if she isn’t impressed by it, don’t be surprised. You’re much better off by just being a relaxed, fun, cool guy than you are trying to impress her.

Have a plan. You should have your date planned in advance. And although you should have it planned, you should also be flexible. If something comes up that could be a lot of fun, don’t be so rigid that you can’t change plans. Your plan should be more of a guideline so that you always have something to do.

Secret Dating Tips Women Don’t Want You to Know!

A secret women know but men don’t!

Let me tell you a story that may seem irrelevant to you. It, however, will help you to understand what it is that the women know but the men hardly know.

A man meets a girl and he finds her very attractive. The man succeeds to build up a friendship with the girl and the girl also feels quite comfortable with the man. It is quite evident that she likes the man very much. You can even presume from the behavior of the girl tat she is, in no way willing to sever the relationship with the man. Yet, when the man thinks that it is the time for him to convey his feelings of love to the girl, he hesitates much and states everything to the girl with a makeshift bravery. The girl then starts avoiding the boy ending up in severing all kinds of relationship with the boy.

You must be, by now, trying to find out why the girl left the company of the man even though she seemed to be reluctant to lose the company of the man. This is the secret that the women know but the men do not know.

The man and the girl became good friends, as most boys and girls or men and women do. The girls or the women have a sense within them that helps them to be in perfect pace with the situations. They never feel too insecure of almost everything, which the men feel. When the friendship grows up, the girls or the women treat the men or the boys as they are to themselves. They seldom try to make the men or the boys feel the way they are feeling.

On the other hand, the men or the boys always feel insecure about the girl or the woman, thinking that it is time to convey his feelings of love and attraction to the girl or the woman whom he wants to date. Herein he makes a mess. He either loses his charms that he very spontaneously has. He keeps pondering over what and how to say that he is in love with her.

In the meantime, the girl or the woman can well feel the uneasy atmosphere tat the man or the boy is creating. She knows very well that she has lost the man who was very interesting and colorful by nature. In stead of getting attracted to the man, she would feel repulsive to the man.

The fact remains that the men or the boys feel insecure when they find their women or girls behaving with them like friends and not like ‘partners’. On the other hand the women feel nearly disgusted or irritated at the outburst of emotions in men. If you do not want your girl or your woman not to leave you, be what you are and do not try to make her feel the way you feel. Let hr feel and think in her way. That is the way she can know you and like you better.

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