Dating Tips for Guys: Effective Ways to Succeed With Hot Girls

Come to think of it guys, have you ever measured your success ratio on the kind of girls you’re going into? For example, your success rate when it comes to hot girls. If you compare them to your success rate with the girls slightly below their level, you might find out for yourself that your success rate in hot girls are lower than that of the average ones.
What we think then is that these hot girls are more selective than the average ones. If you think about it, it does makes sense. But this sounds more like an excuse for us. Because these girls aren’t as choosy as what we’ve thought them to be. It is actually our own behavior that changes when it comes to these hot girls because of what we think they are. This may sound cliche but it is actually true. We just sometimes feel intimidated because of their appearance and maybe status in the society especially when they’re really popular.
So how do we deal with it? Here’s one specific way:
Every time you put a hot girl’s number on your phone, how do you store their names? We usually put something like, “Sexy Monique,” or “Scarlet Hot!” This kind of classification can affect our behavior in a subtle but negative way. For example, when you make a call to “Sexy Monique” you will feel more adrenaline than when you simply call “Monique.”
So here’s a dating advice from the pickup artist, Julian Foxx, its what he calls, “Reverse Classification.”
Whenever you get a hot girl’s phone number, look at her closely, and imagine what her juvenile class mates used to call her. If she’s got nice fake breast, may she was flat as board and they probably called her “wall chest” or something. If she’s tall and blonde, perhaps they called her “Monique Big Bird.”
Now that you get the idea, next step is to store her name in your phone in that way (Scarlet Wall Chest, Monique Big Bird, etc.).
It will not only reduce any anxiety you feel whenever you call her, but it will also lessen your anxiety towards her when you’re together. This can also help you gain more self-confidence and feel less intimidated around her.
Remember, these attractive girls are not really selective, its us who think that way and that’s what keeping our success rates with them low. There could be other ways to overcome this aside from the “Reverse Classification” method. More dating tips soon.

Shot Through the Heart – 5 Best Dating Tips & Secrets Every Man Must Know About a Woman

So it has finally happened. That gorgeous colleague of yours is finally going out with you for dinner. You are excited and nervous, happy and worried all at the same time. What to wear? What to say? What to do to make sure that your long-awaited dream date turns out to be a perfect night to remember? Here are five best dating tips that will ensure that you leave your date shot through the heart and speechless at the end of your romantic evening.

1. Dress to Impress

Let’s face it. Though it is true that physical beauty is only skin deep, no one wants to go out with a slob. And when you’re on a first date, you can’t expect your partner to “accept you for who you are” (i.e. messy-haired and wearing gym clothes). Besides, trying to look good for someone shows that you respect them. So, do try to dress nicely for your romantic occasion. Take a shower, spray on some perfume, comb your hair and choose a neat and nice outfit to impress your date. You may not remember the details of your night out a couple of years down the road, but believe me; you’ll want him/her to remember just how beautiful you looked.

2. Be Punctual.

Never be late for a date. If you agreed to meet at seven, be there at seven. Being late can be misconstrued as a sign of a lack of interest. But being there an hour before can also come across as downright desperate. Show up right on time, and make sure you’re ready to greet your date with a smile.

3. Mind Your Manners.

When your mother reminded you to “mind your manners” as a child, she was actually preparing you for your dating life. First impressions are very important on a first date, so make sure you behave like a well-brought up child. Recall the basics: say “please” and “thank you”, chew with your mouth closed, don’t talk while your mouth is full, etc. You’ll want to enchant your date, not disgust him/her.

4. Conversation Counts.

This is where the meat of the matter lies. The biggest mistake a person can make while on a date is to stare at his/her plate and keep mum the whole night. Most of the time, conversation counts even more than looks! So put on that charm and chat the night away. Don’t know where to start? Ask your date about his/her interests. That will surely make even the most clammed up person talk!

5. Be Yourself.

Cliche as it may sound, just be who you are. Lying or exaggerating stuff about your life is a major no-no in the dating world. All good relationships have honesty as their foundation. If your date doesn’t like who you are – well, that’s their problem!

When all is said and done, keep in mind that dating is really about having fun. Yes, we all hope to find Mr./Ms. Right, but we have to retain a positive attitude about it. So, don’t take it too seriously. Be spontaneous. As the saying goes, “love comes when you least expect it.” Good luck!

Dating Advice – The ‘Perfume to Her Room’ Technique

Here’s a Super effective dating tactic we’ve had a lot of success with:

I call it- ‘Perfume to Her Room’

I usually use it on a first date, but for the more advanced it can also be used immediately after opening her. Lets assume for this example that you are meeting her at a bar for a date and you’ve just walked in.(Because naturally you were later than her right?;)

Step 1: Establish a reason to get physically close to her. (hug, high five, doesn’t matter)

Step 2: Notice her perfume.

Step 3: Say something like: “Oh my God, what is that?? That smells amazing!” Even if it stinks. You now have a legitimate reason to continue smelling her throughout the evening.

Step 4: Look for opportunities throughout the interaction to keep smelling her. You can say something like, “Man, your perfume really is great, I gotta smell that again.” Don’t ask for permission to smell it, you simply can’t resist!

Providing you are both having a decent time this trick will allow you to smoothly transition from innocently smelling her to eventually nuzzling your face in her neck.

Now at some point she will become totally conscious of what you are doing…but that’s okay! Usually by the time that happens you’ve already created a good amount of intimacy and she is fine with it.

So you may be wondering, ‘how many times over the course of a date should I actually smell her?’

As many as you like. Usually I am in the ballpark of 4-8. The important thing is not how many times, but whether or not each time is progressively becoming more intimate.

You may also be wondering, ‘when is the best time to do it?’

I personally like to save it for right after a highpoint in the interaction. (A shared laugh, a moment of meaningful eye contact, etc.) However, the technique can also function as a failsafe to pull out of your back pocket if you run out of things to talk about or you want to change the subject.

And finally, what happens when she says, “I’m not wearing any perfume.” Simple adjustment: Do everything explained above just change the word perfume to soap or even natural scent. Ex: “Not perfume?? No way, I don’t believe you. Let me check again… (you double check;) Well, you’ve got the best damn natural scent I’ve ever smelled. Wow.”

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