3 Powerful Seduction Tips for Men

Desire is a powerful force. Restrain it too much, and it overwhelms you. Express it too much, and it overwhelms her. It feels like a no-win situation for a man desiring intimacy with a woman, but it’s not. You can have all your desires with a woman fulfilled if you know how to go about fulfilling her desires. And that’s what these 3 poignant seduction tips for men are all about.
Give Your Views on Sex a Little Makeover
Make sex mean to you what it means to her. Men perceive sex very much as an activity for granted, the most desirable activity there is, but an activity nonetheless. To men, sex is something extremely pleasurable to do. To women, on the other hand, it is nothing less than an expression of shared intimacy.
In order to seduce women, then, you need to shift your perspective on sex to value it similarly to how she does. Women find men who value the preciousness and meaningfulness of sex a turn-on.
Put Your Attention on Her
A seductive man is one who is not self-absorbed. A man whose obviously very -into himself- is a total turn-off to women. All seduction tips worth a damn involve stepping outside of yourself, your insecurities, and your own little inner world and putting your attention on the outer world, most particularly on the woman you’re trying to seduce. Women find it very attractive when the man that they’re with seems genuinely interested in her, and more, in providing her pleasure.
It’s not about what you like; it’s about what she likes. It’s not about what you want; it’s about what she wants. Focus on what she likes and what she wants, both on discovering it and providing it, and you will find that what you want and what you like will naturally follow in due course.
Remember as you make any moves towards seducing women, that if all your energies are trained on a genuine desire to bring her pleasure, then you will automatically receive pleasure as a result. Make her happy and you’ll be happy – it’s a simple and oft-forgotten law of nature that works every time.
Let Her Make the First Move
Yeah, in most other ways, you’re the one who’s got to make the first move. But in the art of seducing women, it works a little differently. Here your job is to set the stage for her to be the one to make the first move.
It’s not so much a power-play provoking women to want to make the first move (though, in this instance, it is definitely they who have the power)as it is a feeling of safety. A come-on from a guy can make a girl uncomfortable if she’s not ready for it. It can pressure her in ways that completely shut her down. And that can greatly set back all your efforts to win her over.
By holding back your sexual desires, maintaining a nonthreatening demeanor, and waiting for her to come on to you, you’re taking off that pressure, helping her to feel safe with you. And when she feels safe with you, she’ll want to be with you even more. Once she realizes that you’re not just out for one thing, that one thing will become increasingly overpowering inside her.
Granted, it generally takes much longer for a women to “get there” – to want to have sex with the man they’re with – than it takes a man. But you can shorten that duration by setting the best stage you can for her.
Then, when she’s ready, watch out! She’ll pounce on you like a hungry tigress.

Dating Tip: Four Blogging Strategies to Arouse Her Interest, & Make Her Think About You Nonstop

One of the hardest, but most important, attraction tools to initiate and maintain after meeting a potential mate or sex partner is to pique her interest, arouse her passion, and raise her curiosity levels early on. You only get small amount of time before you’re making a touchdown in the friend zone on the team you don’t want to be playing on. Avoid this draft.
You want to get her thinking you are a smart, witty, sensual, and a potential dating material early on. Because women are always looking for the hidden meaning, or “what is he really saying,” and enjoy dissecting your words, you will have a great advantage over many other men if you can maintain an interesting and engaging blog and can get her to start reading soon after she meets you.
It’s like creating your own real-time, updatable, dating site profile that she comes back to again and again, feening and hungry for knowledge about you to sink her teeth into and wrap her overanalyzing brain around.
I won’t go into how to get a blog, there are tons of user-friendly platforms out there (Blogger, Livejournal, WordPress), and you can figure it out. After you get a blog, there are at least four strategies to help you get started building her info-obsession and I will lay them out for you, but first I want to give you a little background.
My Own Obsession Seeding Blog Experience-
I started blogging my junior year in college around late 2001, way before blogging was even cool. I soon found out the unspoken rules, drama, as well as accidentally discovered some unique advantages and relationship-jump starter benefits I would have never had imagined possible by putting a few paragraphs online.
I have to admit, I probably scored at least three long-term girlfriends, 20 acquaintances/friends, and a dozen dates over a four year period purely from bloggin’ it up. I kept them reading months, even years, after the relationship was over. I know for a fact these girls would continue to read my blog if I updated often enough. I am sure they eventually trailed off after not updating for months. My words echoed in their skulls and yours can too with the proper training and advice.
First, you must understand I never did anything to blatantly get a reaction (ok maybe a couple of times). That is the beauty of it: A blog is supposed to be your true feelings, thoughts, and stories. Similar to a newspaper, if it’s put in print (even digital print), it must be true and a woman can not argue with that logic when it comes to feelings because it is there own. Feelings should be trusted as truth indicators for which you can not be blamed.
Now, the Four Strategies:
1. The Unveiling – Keep it Subtle
After you’ve gone on one date, regardless of where you met her, mention that you have a blog that you keep up with that your friends read. She’ll think it is nice that you considered her a friend, then send her the address. Now that you have baited your hook, take the next step, but do this oh so carefully. She she is mildly interested, she will then use the blog to gain a “deeper insight” to who you are the days following the date.
2. Me, Me, Meeeeee — Mention Her Once & She will be Hooked
People can not resist seeing their own name in print, as well as reading your thoughts and opinions about them. Casually mention her name in a post without any strong feelings toward or against her for the most effect. Psychological experiments prove variable interval reinforcement schedules (Google it) are the strongest for predicting consistent behavior.
She’ll come back over and over, wondering when is the next time you will write about her and possibly expose how you really feel.
3. Post about Past Dates & Dating Other Women
This may seem counter-intuitive, but it sucks her in like a line of coke does to Courtney Love. This works especially well, if they are dates from the past, but if you are seeing other people simultaneously talk about those dates too. Once she has been hooked by you mentioning her name, she is sure to think you may have talked about other dates with other women in past posts as she is clicking “previous” until her pointer finger is sore. It helps even more if you post the girls’ pictures in the entry.
Dummy Disclaimer
Only post the girl’s picture when each relationship has actually ended, or it might freak the subject of the post out slightly. Always take a picture down, if any past dating partners request.
End Disclaimer
Past dates will mostly likely never ask because, even if you do post it too early, the immediate EX won’t want to admit she is still reading your blog.
If you don’t have a lot of dates to write about, write about how some girl flirted with you or how you had a great time with your friends. If you can’t be seen as a mysterious writer guy that is highly sought after, you can at least be considered a fun guy that people like and has a life of his own without her. This is highly attractive as well. That is a subject for another dating tip article.
4. Go Deep, but Not too Deep
It is good to be thought-provoking and philosophical in your entries sometimes, but don’t overdo it. This should be obvious, but don’t whine, give self-pity, or share your deep-seeded childhood feelings and stories about how your uncle touched you. This isn’t therapy, it’s entertainment for yourself, others and to help you get that next date. Good luck!

Dating Secrets For Men – Secrets You Should Know To Succeed In The Dating Game

Are there dating secrets for men? Men who are easily intimidated may find that dating is a tough and difficult game. As for those guys who are inexperience or with self-esteem issues will also find it difficult to date any women out.Dating is not about do’s and don’t as suggested by some dating articles and tips, it is about your knowledge and techniques. There are some dating secrets about women that men do not know, here are two secrets that I like to talk about in this article.1) Woman doesn’t like ‘nice man’ – Believe it or not, woman doesn’t like man who is ‘too nice’ to her. Being nice to a woman will make her feel that she has a control over you, and she will lose interest in you. Do not treat her like a princess. Women like men who are beyond their control. Remember this secret, the less you do and say, the more she’s attracted to you. 2) Never admit your feelings to her too fast – A woman will keep thinking of you if you choose not to express your feelings to her too fast. She will keep on thinking whether you have ‘feeling’ for her, and she will keep on guessing and thus ‘thinking’ about you because she could not get the answer. You spoilt the dating game if you choose to express your feelings for her too fast, she tends to be less attracted to you. If you think that by expressing your feelings to a woman will make her feel the same towards you, then you are completely wrong. By not expressing your feelings to her too fast tends to create a tension between two of you, making her feel more attracted to you.

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