Secret Dating Tips Women Don’t Want You to Know!
November 28, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips For Women
A secret women know but men don’t!
Let me tell you a story that may seem irrelevant to you. It, however, will help you to understand what it is that the women know but the men hardly know.
A man meets a girl and he finds her very attractive. The man succeeds to build up a friendship with the girl and the girl also feels quite comfortable with the man. It is quite evident that she likes the man very much. You can even presume from the behavior of the girl tat she is, in no way willing to sever the relationship with the man. Yet, when the man thinks that it is the time for him to convey his feelings of love to the girl, he hesitates much and states everything to the girl with a makeshift bravery. The girl then starts avoiding the boy ending up in severing all kinds of relationship with the boy.
You must be, by now, trying to find out why the girl left the company of the man even though she seemed to be reluctant to lose the company of the man. This is the secret that the women know but the men do not know.
The man and the girl became good friends, as most boys and girls or men and women do. The girls or the women have a sense within them that helps them to be in perfect pace with the situations. They never feel too insecure of almost everything, which the men feel. When the friendship grows up, the girls or the women treat the men or the boys as they are to themselves. They seldom try to make the men or the boys feel the way they are feeling.
On the other hand, the men or the boys always feel insecure about the girl or the woman, thinking that it is time to convey his feelings of love and attraction to the girl or the woman whom he wants to date. Herein he makes a mess. He either loses his charms that he very spontaneously has. He keeps pondering over what and how to say that he is in love with her.
In the meantime, the girl or the woman can well feel the uneasy atmosphere tat the man or the boy is creating. She knows very well that she has lost the man who was very interesting and colorful by nature. In stead of getting attracted to the man, she would feel repulsive to the man.
The fact remains that the men or the boys feel insecure when they find their women or girls behaving with them like friends and not like ‘partners’. On the other hand the women feel nearly disgusted or irritated at the outburst of emotions in men. If you do not want your girl or your woman not to leave you, be what you are and do not try to make her feel the way you feel. Let hr feel and think in her way. That is the way she can know you and like you better.
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First Date Clothing Suggestions for Men
November 26, 2009 by admin
Filed under Advanced Dating tips
Dressing smartly and suitably for a date is an area which some men unfortunately overlook and feel they don’t need to make an effort dressing for a date. This is the first mistake a man can make when going on a date. Having said that, not all men overlook this area; there are some men who spend hours getting ready for a date but wouldn’t admit it. Wherever you decide to go on a date, regardless of the class, it is vital that you appear to have made an effort and turn up looking your best wearing a freshly washed and ironed outfit.
First impressions can make or break a date, so the importance of looking smart cannot be underestimated. Along with being washed and ironed, clothes must fit properly, be stain free, be hole free, not too tight, not too baggy, not garish and not old and faded. It is also important that the outfit you choose to wear on a date is suitable for the date location plus matches your age. Dressing older or younger than your actual age will only make you stand out. By dressing too young you may appear like you are trying to recapture your youth resulting in your date believing you have other personal issues going on. Alternatively dressing too old could be off putting for your date. You want your date to look at you and feel happy to be on a date with you, not to wonder what they have got themselves into.
The easiest date to dress for is a casual date. This may include going for a drink in a bar, going out for fast food or a visit to the cinema. For any casual date, it is perfectly acceptable to wear jeans. It does not mean that you can dress down or wear jeans that have seen better days. Jeans should be in good condition and have a perfect fit, especially around the bottom area, which is where most women tend to have a good look at. You can choose between a variety of tops to accompany jeans, such as a t-shirt, a poloshirt, a casual shirt or a sweater. Poloshirts are ideal if you have a good physique and you wish to show it off. If the weather is cold, then a casual jacket is suitable. If you decide to wear a t-shirt, it is best to avoid garish colours and stay away from novelty t-shirts, at least for the first date anyway. If you decide to tuck your top into your trousers, remember to wear a belt to add a finishing touch to your look.
You can get away with wearing jeans on a casual date, but if you are going on a classy date, then they are not appropriate. A more formal look is required for a classy date, such as a visit to the theatre or a meal at a fancy restaurant. It’s a good idea to own a suit, ideally in a dark colour such as charcoal grey or navy, as you can create a number of different looks using just one suit. You can wear a variety of different shirts and ties with a suit or you can change your look entirely by wearing the suit trousers with a casual shirt, or even wear the suit jacket over a casual outfit to create another great look. If you choose to wear casual attire on a classy date then all you will achieve is showing your date that you couldn’t be bothered to make an effort, plus you will stand out especially if your date is wearing a stylish dress. Once you have chosen your outfit, don’t ruin the look by wearing inappropriate shoes. Formal footwear should be worn when going on a formal date. Trainers, sandals, pumps and boots are not appropriate. Formal shoes must be clean, match the outfit and comfortable to wear. If you are wearing a belt with your trousers, then ideally your shoes should be the same colour as the belt. Footwear is an area that women tend to notice, so great footwear can leave a great lasting impression on your date.An active date, such as playing a game of tennis, or going walking together, requires a different look. It is necessary to wear sports gear and not forgetting supportive footwear. Clean modern jogging bottoms or shorts are appropriate, just as long as shorts aren’t too small and tight and jogging bottoms aren’t baggy at the knees. A t-shirt, long or short sleeved is suitable and if the weather is cold, then a sports jacket or a sweatshirt can be worn. Dressing for a sporty date is not a time to put fashion before comfort. You need to dress in clothes that won’t restrict your movement plus feel comfortable to wear; remembering to check that they are clean before you put them on, including your footwear.
If your date has arranged the date and you don’t know where you are going, then you need to wear an outfit that is suitable for a range of date locations. A good suggestion is a pair of smart trousers accompanied with a fashionable shirt and a stylish jacket. A stylish jacket, such as a suit jacket will be appropriate if your date has booked a table at a fancy restaurant, and a fashionable shirt is sufficient for any casual date and even a slightly classier date. There is no need to wear a tie, but if you prefer, you could always conceal a tie in your jacket pocket in case you find yourself going to an upmarket venue. If you feel overdressed, you can remove the suit jacket to reveal your casual shirt. It is always better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed, which will show that you have made an effort.
Along with clean, ironed, fresh smelling and well fitted clothes, it is a good idea to turn up for a date clean shaven, showered and smelling great. Smelling good is very attractive to women, just don’t overdo the aftershave or body spray. Don’t leave your decision making to the last minute. Think in advance about what you wish to wear and take your time getting ready. The last thing you want is to turn up for a date feeling flustered and worried because you forgot to shave or put on deodorant. Planning your outfit in advance and looking like you have made an effort are the two main keys to dressing well for a first date.
When Dating How Many Dates are Right
November 22, 2009 by admin
Filed under Advanced Dating tips
Dating goes back to ancient mating rituals that are still used today, they have not bee modified like women would hop today’s world.
Lets start from the beginning of how to meet new people, how to talk and how to get out on the dating scene. Even if a certain level of trust has been established, it is best to only decide to meet when one is ready. In the interest of safety and security, it is also best to meet in a public place.
There are so many online dating tips and they have been completely done to death, there are new ways and approaches on how to act on a date after you did the online chat and IM thing, it is time to go on a real date and meet real people and start living. Cyber stalking can turn to real stalking if you don’t pace your self and find out as much as you can about whom this person really is before you decide to meet up with them for real.
Never pass any derogatory comment about any past woman you may have had a relationship with. There are many reasons not to date a co-worker, it is normally awkward environment to work in when you break up, it is unprofessional to do. If one outweighs the advantages and disadvantages of such a relationship and determines that it is beneficial, then by all means, go for it. Remember that relationship is a game for two (or more) players, so you have to play your part in order to advance the game, but also remain attentive to the other’s moves all along the road.
Many people sit home and wait for they other person to call them and ask them out on a date, if you wait around and never take the initiative you’re going to have a hard time getting a date and establishing a significant relationship with someone Don’t give up on your old ties, your long friendships just because you are dating a woman who you find extremely fascinating.
If you ask girls or women who love their partners and have been with them along time how did it last it is usually something in his personality they adore. If you are looking to get married and you are single and dating and you try very hard to create the perfect situation, and you get hurt many times you need to relax and let things happen.
Some people don’t love themselves enough to value you if you love them. But why is true love so elusive. Wanting love is very different than being desperate for love.
Why would you trust your heart to someone without first knowing if their personality is one that you can live with? Your gut is almost always right, your heart has no clue what it is doing. For many people, making contact online can be quite a daunting task and the fear of rejection can be just as strong.




