Dating Tips for Men – Touching

To have any kind of success in the dating game, most men will have to re-configure their plan of attack.  Most guys are not open to new ideas and end up staying single for a very long time.

Hopefully you don’t fall into this category and you are willing to receive advice.  So now that we’re done with that part, let’s get on with the lesson…there are some lucky women out there waiting for your touch!

You’re going to have to obey a couple of rules and take heed to advice that will coincide with a woman’s personal boundaries. You’re going to have to go into a stealth mode. That is you don’t want to rush but still give the impression of being a confident guy who has no problem getting to know women and can do so thru relaxed physical contact. Knowing how to flirt in this manner is a must!RULE 1 – Don’t fall under the assumption that touching a woman on the first date is stepping out of bounds. Remember, the key is knowing how to flirt on the sly. Make a good first impression and form a bond by introducing yourself and touching her softly and casually on the outside of either arm while talking about something at the same time. The outside of a person’s arm can be considered a neutral zone and should not alarm her nor does it suggest or hint to an intimate act. Give it a go, I’m sure you’ll be surprised with the results.RULE 2 – After you’ve managed to start a conversation or you have been chatting with a woman on the regular, keep up the physical contact. Don’t go over board with this, be subtle. A good example would be being in a crowded place and she needs to go to the restroom. You would place your hand on her shoulder and swivel your bodies in the direction of the restroom and point out her destination.RULE 3 – Make it a habit to finish a conversation with some form of contact. After having a nice conversation with a woman and you both decide to go on a date or simply trade phone numbers, a warm hug would be a nice way to close things out.